For many — men and women included — squirting is a mysterious occurrence. Where does the liquid come from? What does it feel like? And crucially, is it urine?

You know how people blame Disney movies for giving people unrealistic expectations about love? Well, I blame porn for giving me unrealistic expectations about sex. If porn were any indication of people's everyday sex lives, we'd all be firing off liquid streams of erotic bliss at every climax. Sorry, but no. That said, this elusive sex sensation isn't entirely impossible. Apparently, for some women, it does come ha!

Remember Me. Squirting is something of a sexual phenomenon. The short answer is: yes. And while you can learn how to do it, some people might never experience it, says Dr Kat Van Kirk, a licensed marriage and family therapist, certified sex therapist, and resident sex expert at AdamandEve. When teaching yourself to ejaculate, also known as squirting or gushing, have patience with yourself and your body.

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