Sex should never be selfish. Just like how men appreciate being complimented on their performance in bed, there are several things that even women totally love during sex. Foreplay, kisses, neck kisses are some things we are sure you know of. However there is something more too.

Use compliments Every woman likes to be flattered. Calling her beautiful, telling her that she is sexy, telling her how nice she smells or feels is always a winner in the bedroom. Putting her feelings first is a good way of getting her to open up and respond in kind. Ask her what she likes and go ahead and fill out her order. This serves to get you more of the good stuff.

Seriously--a lot of people underestimate the power of a few naughty words in the throes of passion. But in all honesty, some words are more effective than others, and it's important to know which words are really going to make her go crazy for you. Just make sure you say the right name, or else you'll have one very unhappy woman on your hands. When you're turned on, there's no hiding your boner. It's very obvious when a dude is hot in the pants.

And intimacy is, in turn, a common prerequisite for getting it on. Adds Ian Kerner, Ph. What you tell your bed buddy has the power to crank up her arousal, confidence, and make sex even more amazing for the both of you. But before we get into specifics, here are a couple general pointers:.