Intimacy-positive week is continuing with a guest post from my bisexual friend Sana Al-Badri. My own comments are in the footnotes. Welcome to my very bi dating advice, from a bi woman to bi women and of course, to readers who are curious about bisexual dating. This article is about authentic encounters with the same sex.
My Evening at a Bisexual Orgy in a South London Sauna
Kully — a young Asian guy who's butt-naked, bar the cup of Ribena balanced strategically to cover his crotch — is really holding forth. They get the best employment, everything. I work in pharmaceuticals. You know how I got my last job? I waited outside the company premises every night on my girl days, dressed up as a woman.
Yes, she's really bisexual. You wouldn't keep asking a straight woman you were dating if she was "really" straight, right? Yeah, it's just as weird for you to do that to a bisexual woman. And on top of annoying questions, she likely experiences a unique form of identity erasure. As a result, I often feel unseen.
We exist. We weren't just waiting for you to come along and help us make up our minds. Please don't go down the pub and tell your mates you've "turned" a lesbian.