If you've never been to a sex party , what do you picture them looking like? Sweaty orgies where people penetrate one another as a way of saying hi? Some other intimidating, sordid fuckfest that's probably best left to more extroverted, hyper-qualified sex-havers than the likes of you? You're not necessarily wrong, but there are plenty of sex parties where you'd fit right in. Super-elaborate sex parties do exist—as do super chill, casual ones. The idea of going to any kind of sex party might seem intense to newcomers, they're often perfect places for the shy-but-curious to expand their sexual horizons.
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Image via the Thrillist. And it might not be because it's a bright, new, scary world for you. Perhaps you've moved to another country, even just a new city. Regardless, the rules stay the same Despite what far too many people might think, these are not places where any randy individual can walk in, pick the first warm body, and do whatever they want. They are safe-havens. And what they don't want is someone barging in with no respect.
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The days of half a lager and a glitter ball being thought of as a decent night out are long gone. Thinking of introducing some illicit fun into your weekends? One of the original and most established adult parties, Torture Garden attracts between — 2, monthly visitors to various London venues.
Last Saturday night, I spent three hours in a video conferencing session with 45 strangers, watching a man in a sailor hat enthusiastically eating ass. In another corner, a bearded man in a tastefully minimalist studio apartment ties up a slim dark-haired woman with Shibari rope, her breasts bulging between the knots; in another, a brunette woman in a cream-colored bustier enthusiastically fellates her partner, who is wearing what appear to be Batman pajama pants. NSFW is far from the only sex party forced to close its doors, which have had to pivot to digital in the era of social distancing. There was an orgy hosted by the London-based sex club Killing Kittens, and the trend has also made its way into the world of porn, with director Alexandre Sartre producing a four-way lesbian orgy shot entirely over video conference.